Communication

I believe communication with others and self talk is a major factor in most aspects of our lives.

Communication with others can influence whether we will;

  • Develop team mates or opponents
  • Be open and honest or vague and detached
  • Be more logical or more emotional
  • Be more helpful or annoying
  • Become a leader, follower or independent

Communication with ourselves or self talk can influence whether we will;

  • Judge ourselves (fixed mindset) or enjoy ourselves (growth mindset)
  • Seek to address our basic needs first or last
  • Focus on problems or solutions
  • Create a positive future

Resources:

Nonviolent Communication – Marshall Rosenberg.

Radical Honesty – Brad Blanton.

The Power of Vulnerability – Brene Brown.

The New People Making – Virginia Satir.

Pragmatics of Human Communication by Paul Watzlawick, Janet Beavin Bavelas and Don D. Jackson